生活如同一面鏡子,你對它笑它也會回以笑容。人與人之間亦是如此,你對他人以笑容友善,他人也會以同樣的態度對待你。態度決定了人際關係、家庭教育效果、工作表現,甚至人生的成敗。
心理學和動物學實驗中,兩隻性格不同的猩猩被放置在鏡子環繞的房間。一隻溫和的猩猩一進房間就看到鏡中的"同伴"以友善態度歡迎,因此與之融洽相處。相反,一隻脾氣暴烈的猩猩被鏡中"同類"的凶惡態度激怒,與之展開激烈對抗,最終因此喪生。
應用:
此觀察可應用於家庭教育和學校教育中。父母和老師應以真誠熱愛和關懷的態度對待孩子,孩子才會以相應友善和和藹的態度回應。互相鼓舞,彼此溫暖,締造和諧愉快的相處。
The Effect of Attitude
Life is like a mirror - if you smile at it, it will smile back at you. The same is true between people - if you approach others with a friendly and cheerful attitude, they will reciprocate with the same attitude towards you. Attitude determines interpersonal relationships, the effectiveness of family education, work performance, and even the success or failure of one's life.
In psychological and animal science experiments, two chimpanzees with different personalities were placed in a room surrounded by mirrors. The gentle chimpanzee, upon entering the room, saw its "companion" in the mirror welcoming it with a friendly attitude, and so it interacted harmoniously with this "fellow." In contrast, the aggressive chimpanzee was enraged by the hostile attitude of its "counterpart" in the mirror, and a fierce confrontation ensued, ultimately leading to its demise.
Application:
This observation can be applied in family education and school education. Parents and teachers should approach children with genuine love, care, and a positive attitude, and the children will respond with a corresponding friendly and amiable attitude in return. By encouraging and warming each other, they can create a harmonious and pleasant environment.